I magine it's 7:00 on Friday night. You take out your cellular phone to call your friend. You flip open the phone and nothing happens...no lights, no screen, no email message symbol...nothing. You know your problem? Dead batteries. The result...no communication between you and your friend.
Or imagine you are sitting at your computer trying to do your homework for Mr. Steve's discipleship class. But every time you try to connect you get a message saying the server is down or that the computer can't open the page that you need. Have you had something like this happen? The problem...the server doesn't work. The result...no communication.
When your cellular phone battery dies or your computer server is not working then it's useless to try to use them to communicate. You will not be able to communicate until you put in a new battery in your cellular phone or connect to a different server. Communication is broken until you fix the problem.
1. WHY ARE OUR PRAYERS NOT ANSWERED?
Our prayer life is a lot like this. Many times we feel like our prayers are not answered. There's no communication between us and God. But the problem is not dead batteries and it's not a bad server. The problem is called sin. Sin is the biggest reason why our prayers are not answered. John Bunyan, in his book, Pilgrim's Progress, said this: "Prayer will make you stop sinning but sin will make you stop praying!"
Our verse for today is Psalm 66:18
 Psalm 66:18 |
"If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened." |
Sin keeps God from listening to our prayers. What does that word "cherished" mean?
A. "To Cherish" 1st Definition.
First, it means to hold tight to. You can picture it like this. Many of you know my daughter Claire. She's very funny and soft and I love to pick her up and play with her. I hold her close. That's the meaning of the word "cherish". However, this verse is not talking about a cute little baby. It's talking about cherishing sin. Holding sin closely, picking it up and playing with it; loving it. The verse says, "if I cherish sin in my heart the Lord will not listen to me when I pray. I pick up my cellular phone and the batteries dead. It's the same thing.
B. "To Cherish" 2nd Definition.
The second meaning of the word cherish is to tolerate, or to accept, or to live with. It's like a piece of furniture in your living room, like a couch or a sofa. You know it's there. You can see it. You live with it every day. It doesn's bother you or make you feel guilty or anything. You've just learned to accept it.
That's the meaning of the word "To cherish". To hold something closely or to tolerate or accept something.
Many Christians today have learned to cherish sin in their lives; to keep it close to them and to live with it.
And the result is that our prayers are not answered.
A huge storm went through Yellowstone National Park in Wyoming state in America one time. The storm knocked over a huge tree that was over 300 feet tall. It was a gigantic tree. When scientists took a closer look at the tree the found that the storm was not the only reason why this huge tree had fallen. Looking closely, they found thousands of tiny, little insects had eaten away the heart of this tree. The inside of the tree was rotten. One scientist said this, "The weakness of that tree was not from the storm. It's weakness started when that first insect started living inside the tree."
We are that huge tree, folks. And if we allow sin enter into our heart we will become rotten. We will fall. Maybe not now or next week or next year. But if we continue to cherish sin in our hearts God will not listen to our prayers and one day we will fall like that tree in Yellowstone National Park.
Is there an unconfessed sin in your life now? Is there a sin that you love to hold on to; to keep it close; to cherish? Is there a sin that is hidden inside that is slowly, like those insects, eating away at your heart? If there is I can promise you this; God will not listen to your prayers.
Isaiah 59:1-2
(paraphrase) says this, "God's arm has power to save you and his ears will surely listen to you. But your sins have separated you from your God; your sins have hidden His face from you, so that He will not hear."
2. What's The Answer For Unanswered Prayer?
Well, that's the reason why our prayers are not answered; sin. Now, if we only talk about the problem then we've only talked about 50% of what we need to talk about. What's the answer? What will put the battery back in our cellular phones or get your Internet connection running again? Well, if sin is the problem then confession, or confessing our sins, is the answer.
A. Confession: John Calvin says it this way, "Prayer is useless unless we begin by asking for forgiveness of our sins. The way to start a prayer is by asking God to forgive our sins". A survey was taken recently by a Christian man named George Barna. He found some very interesting information about people's prayer lives Here's what he found in his survey:
---95% thank God for what He has done in their lives
---47% ask forgiveness for specific sins
So, 95% thank God (for the meal, for the new job, new girlfriend...) but only 47% (less than half) of the people ask forgiveness or confess specific sins. Interesting. Instead of confessing sin, you know what we usually do? We usually do one of three things. The first thing we try to do is explain our sin. For example, "Hey, I'm in college now. I'm supposed to live without rules and have complete freedom. I'm supposed to drink and go dancing and smoke. That's what all college students do". Or, "Hey, this is the Army. I'm in the military. We've supposed to drink a lot and tell dirty jokes about women. That's what military life is all about". We try to explain our sin away.
The second way hide our sin is to make our sin sound smaller or to minimize our sin. "Oh, it's just a little lie" or "I haven't done anything wrong with her, I'm just thinking about it". The third way we cover our sin is to put the blame somewhere else but not on ourselves. "if my parents didn't make me go theret then I would have?..."if my girlfriend wasn't so impatient then I wouldn't get so angry"...moving the blame to another person.
We explain it...Minimize it...Move the blame... When really, what we need to do is just confess it and let God forgive it. Well, maybe you're saying, "Well, I do confess my sins." Well, that's great but how many of us confess our sins kind of like this:
DearJesuspleaseforgivemysinsinJesusname,Amen...
What we need to do is confess our sins specifically. For example, "God, I want to confess that I have been cherishing anger in my heart or jealousy towards another person in my heart." "God, I know that I have a problem with pornography or physical pleasure that is breaking my communication with you. I confess it and ask you to forgive me and cleanse my mind and my heart." Be specific, make it personal.
B. Promise:
And here's another promise for you found in I John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
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by Denny Smith
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