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| Roman 13:14 |
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The first man said, "O king, I am a very experienced driver, and today as I was coming up here I couldn't help but imagine what it would be like for me to drive your car. Why, O king, you know those sharp curves on the way here ... the ones with no guardrails? Why, I could drive 60 miles an hour and come within a few feet of the edge, but no one could get you here any quicker or any safer than I."
The king then called in the second man who said, "O king, I couldn't help but overhear the first man. And I want you to know I have been driving for over 30 years, and I tested those hairpin curves. Why, I could drive you up here going 75 miles an hour, taking you within inches of the edge. I would throw gravel all over the hillsides, but you could feel perfectly safe with me."
The king then called in the third man who said, "O king, I couldn't help but overhear the first two guys, and to be honest with you, I am not half as qualified. And to tell you the truth, as I was driving up here today and noticed those curves, they scared me to death. Why, if I were to be your driver, I would just crawl up this mountain and would drive as close to the mountain as I could."
Who did the king hire? The drivers represent us, and the road our lives. Many professing believers drive as close to the sin line edge as possible, and wonder why God does not seem close to them.
5. MAKE NO PROVISION
![]() Romans 13:14 |
"make no provision for the flesh to yield to it's lusts." |
If I provide opportunities to make it easy for me to sin, it almost guarantees that I will "yield" or give in to these desires. Proverbs 6:27-28 says, "Can a man take fire into his bosom and his clothes not be burned?"
We make provision for the flesh in basically two ways: (1.) By committing deeds which will draw us to sin and (2.) By omitting standards which will keep us from sin.
Some examples of this would be; an alcoholic who keeps alcohol in his fridge; a drug user who keeps contact with sellers; a man with impure thoughts who keeps near-pornographic material hidden for a rainy day. One can't fight his appetite for doughnuts by standing outside a bakery staring at them. SOW A THOUGHT - REAP AN ACT; SOW AN ACT - REAP A HABIT; SOW A HABIT - REAP A LIFESTYLE. "Be not deceived, God is not mocked, whatsoever a man sows, that shall he also reap"
(Galatians 6:7).
6. REPLACE BAD HABITS
What the Bible says is that we are to replace bad habits with good ones. Whenever someone puts off a bad habit they will have a void or hole in their life that needs filled with something good to "Put on."
Ephesians 4:22-32 and
Colossians 3:8-17
give lists of things God wants us to put off and things God wants us to put on in their place. This is an excellent counseling tool. This principle will help us have a more permanent victory in problem areas we have. Replace your bad habits with good ones.
7. PRACTICE THE PRESENCE OF GOD/REMEMBER ETERNITY
If we consciously live our lives, realizing that God is with us in all we do, we should seek to live a lifestyle that would be pleasing to Him. Nothing we do is hidden from God. In a modern sense, our lives are being played on God's video screen and He is watching.
One group of children painted the reference "2 Chronicles 16:9" and an eye-ball on a small stone and carried it in their pocket to remind them that God was with them. This verse says, "For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth." Some of us need an eye rock!
One day Christ will return to take all believers to live with Him. We will physically be brought into God's presence as fast as "the twinkling of an eye." Realizing that our life will be reviewed at that time and that we will give account for our actions, should motivate us to live a pure life before Him.
8. EVERY THOUGHT
![]() Proverbs 23:7 |
"As a man thinks in his heart, so is he." |
2 Corinthians 10:5 tells us that we need to take every thought captive. Some have called this the E.T. (every thought) principle. What goes into our mind will come out through our lives. We choose the kind of person we become depending on what we allow into our minds. In Philippians 4:8 what kind of things did Paul say we should spend time thinking about? "Whatsoever things are true, honest, just, pure, lovely, of good report, virtue and praise, think on these things."
In Matthew 5 Jesus repeatedly says, "You have heard ..." and then tells of an action that the Scriptures say we should not commit (like adultery). He follows this up with, "but I say unto you" and then tells that we should not allow our minds to commit this act. With this in mind we should make a commitment like David made in
Psalm 101:3
when he said, "I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes" and like Job who said "I have made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a girl"
(Job 31:1).
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by Steve Nicholes
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